That sounds a lot like her. She always has to be the one to sacrifice, to carry hte heaviest burden, to throw herself into danger.
She doesn't understand that she's important. Or... she does, but she doesn't think she is. She thinks she needs to give all of herself up for others and I hate it. It hurts, watching her do that. She won't listen.
Well, I'm not exactly being honest. We're also keeping him out because the bad guys want him. But that's not that important here.
I asked her what would make her happy once, before that turned into the fight. She said whatever made you and me happy.
I wish I knew what to say. But all I can think is that she'd genuinely give up everything, including her life, if it made other people happy. Well, everything except for you.
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She doesn't understand that she's important. Or... she does, but she doesn't think she is. She thinks she needs to give all of herself up for others and I hate it. It hurts, watching her do that. She won't listen.
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I asked her what would make her happy once, before that turned into the fight. She said whatever made you and me happy.
I wish I knew what to say. But all I can think is that she'd genuinely give up everything, including her life, if it made other people happy. Well, everything except for you.
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I hate it and I don't know how to make her see that she matters.
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She's my friend. I want her to get over this.
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