And you did, for awhile, but all that bottling and lying does is guarantee that things will be worse later. You weren't doing okay, you were suffering and nobody knew, and now they're suffering too.
[ How to reconcile it is a personal question that York isn't sure how to answer for him -- that he probably can't answer for someone else, and shouldn't. But he can say what he'd do. ]
No one else can tell you if you should forgive them or not. I'd say to look at the circumstances, and who they are now, and who they're trying to be... and who you want to be to them. If it's worth moving forward with them with honesty or not.
I haven't forgiven South for what she did to you. But I can see how it happened, and I've seen her grief, and that she's trying to be someone better. To figure out who she is. So we're moving forward. That was my choice, and something I was only able to do after telling her how much I hated the version of her who let you die.
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[ How to reconcile it is a personal question that York isn't sure how to answer for him -- that he probably can't answer for someone else, and shouldn't. But he can say what he'd do. ]
No one else can tell you if you should forgive them or not. I'd say to look at the circumstances, and who they are now, and who they're trying to be... and who you want to be to them. If it's worth moving forward with them with honesty or not.
I haven't forgiven South for what she did to you. But I can see how it happened, and I've seen her grief, and that she's trying to be someone better. To figure out who she is. So we're moving forward. That was my choice, and something I was only able to do after telling her how much I hated the version of her who let you die.