Making yourself available is important. The ones that only talk to each other need to know they can also talk to you. Sincere offers of being willing to listen are good to offer on occasion.
They often need a sounding board for their feelings. Those feelings can be complicated at times. For instance, if some of them are angry, that anger needs to be validated, but also eventually let go.
I don't believe in forgiveness, not for some crimes. But anger is a corrosive force. It has its time and place, and then needs to be processed and cast aside.
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They often need a sounding board for their feelings. Those feelings can be complicated at times. For instance, if some of them are angry, that anger needs to be validated, but also eventually let go.
I don't believe in forgiveness, not for some crimes. But anger is a corrosive force. It has its time and place, and then needs to be processed and cast aside.